Advice from a non-expert
A lovely good morning to you all. I decided to continue the 31 day challenge from where I stopped. I decided that there was nothing that was going to stop me from completing it. I am on day 8 today and I am to just give a lovely piece of advice to those that honour me by reading my posts. Here goes.
My life isn’t a perfect one. In fact I have made more mistakes than maybe 10 people joined together. However, in these 17 years that I have lived on earth, I have learnt one thing. ‘Your personality is your best fragrance’. Everyone loves to smell good and that’s why we want to get good fragrances that someone can perceive from a mile away. However, you can own 30 bottles of the best fragrances in this world but if you don’t put on a good personality, then I’m sorry, but others will perceive you as nothing but toilet water.
In life, a good personality is very important. Behaving proud, rude, nasty will not get you very far. Now I know that some people have gotten to the top regardless of their ugly personalities but after all said and done, they do not have real people around them. They will not able to point out their real friends.
Like I said, I am not perfect and it just sounds like I have been blabbing about fragrances and colognes but my point is true. From what I have seen and what I have heard, I know that a good personality is everything. I am not saying be a people pleaser or let people walk all over you;No. Just be a person that others will find relatable and others will find appealing. Everything else falls under because you will have real people around you. Be who you are and don’t go against your set principles. I have also learnt that people respect those that follow their principles. In this crazy world, it is easy to let go of principles because of what others might think or how fast the world is changing. Just always remember why you kept them in the first place. Keep them with confidence and with time, others will respect and have confidence in you.
Half of all I have written, I am still trying to learn. I am no expert and as I give this advice, I also give myself. At the end of the day though, being you is all that matters.